How to Keep Romance Alive on Family Vacations with Kids
Parenthood doesn't spell the end of romance—even on family trips. With smart planning, you can infuse honeymoon vibes into your getaway with children in tow. Here's how, drawing from proven family travel strategies.
Choose Romantic Destinations Wisely
Opt for spots that naturally evoke romance. Pristine white-sand beaches or picturesque Mediterranean streets can ease family tensions, even during tantrums.
Skip overly kid-centric options like Disney cruises or resorts where 'alone time' means mingling with cartoon characters or other families' children.
Prioritize Space and Privacy
Avoid cramming everyone into one room—it kills spontaneity. Kids wrestle into bed, leaving you whispering in the dark.
Rent an apartment for separate sleeping areas and flexible mealtimes. Prefer hotels? Choose suites, connecting rooms, or those with terraces for quiet evenings while kids sleep.
Enlist Grandparents as Allies
Relive carefree days by inviting grandparents. Kids bond with them, freeing you for couple's outings. No advance bookings needed—perfect for spontaneous beach walks or lie-ins.
Leverage Kids' Clubs and Babysitting
Kids' clubs offer treasure hunts and activities, granting you time for unhurried sightseeing, seaside lunches, or restorative naps.
For younger ones, hotels provide trained babysitters or baby-listening services, ideal for romantic dinners post-bedtime.
Maximize Nap Time Opportunities
Young nappers are a gift. Book accommodations with scenic outdoor spaces to avoid cabin fever while they rest.
Stroll with a buggy until they sleep, then enjoy cocktails with a view. Good sleepers make this viable for evenings too.
Opt for Group or Family Tours
Share childcare on villa rentals with friends—rotate duties for couple's breaks. Consider family-focused tours from G Adventures or the Family Adventure Company, where kids befriend peers and parents share loads.
Involve Kids in Romantic Moments
Family sunsets, beach picnics with champagne for adults and fizzy drinks for kids—romance thrives together. Cherish shared wonder at new discoveries.
Top Romantic Family Destinations
Mauritius—Stunning beaches, kids' clubs, babysitting, and family massages blend luxury and family fun.
Glamping in Great Britain—Countryside adventures by day, starry firelit nights—no tent setup required.
Thailand—Affordable romantic villas provide ample space from kids.
Italy—Countryside farmhouses offer hill views, vineyards, and gourmet meals post-bedtime.
South Africa—Family wildlife lodges feature kids' safaris while you enjoy sunset drives.
Curious about family adventures? Explore the Lonely Planet Kids blog.
