Embrace Self-Love in Santa Fe: Solo Adventures for Valentine's Day and Beyond
With Valentine's Day approaching and my partner committed to a busy work schedule, I decided to transform solo time into an empowering celebration of self-love. Instead of dwelling on missed romantic weekends, I focused on pampering myself. Here's how to cherish your own company in the City Different, drawing from my personal experiences.
Shake It Out: Dance to Your Own Rhythm
I treasure my hands for their versatility, my feet for carrying me through Santa Fe's vibrant streets, and my senses for capturing the city's unique sights and sounds. My body deserves freedom to move, so dancing became my first stop.
At the Santa Fe Farmers' Market, follow the rhythmic drums across the tracks to the Railyard Performance Center. For over 20 years, instructor Elise Gent has led free-spirited Saturday morning sessions blending dances from West Africa, the Congo, and Haiti. Joined by a live drum circle, participants of all skill levels immerse in joyful movement. Wear loose clothing, bring an open heart, and connect with a welcoming community of all genders. Watch this Santa Fe Creative Tourism video to get inspired.
A Indulgent Solo Lunch
Post-dance, I've earned a guilt-free meal. Sweetwater Harvest Kitchen's slogan, "Eat Here Now," perfectly suits a relaxing solo lunch in their light, airy dining room—one of Santa Fe's top ten spots.
Dancing burns calories, so I savor the shrimp and grits: creamy, robust, and gluten-free. With abundant vegetarian and vegan options, it's inclusive dining. Evenings feature live music like John Serkin's slack-key guitar.
Savor shrimp and grits at Sweetwater Harvest Kitchen for quality solo time.
Nourish Your Soul with Zen and Poetry
Blend poetry and Zen meditation at Upaya Zen Center's retreat, Sky Above, Great Wind: The Life and Poetry of Zen Master Ryokan—ideal for Santa Fe's expansive skies.
Find peace at Upaya Zen Center, offering organic vegetarian meals. (Photo credit: Upaya Zen Center)
Led by Sensei Kazuaki Tanahashi (calligrapher and translator), Natalie Goldberg (author of Writing Down the Bones), and Roshi Joan Halifax (Upaya founder and applied Buddhism expert), this retreat explores Ryokan's life as a Zen "wise fool." Beginners welcome; leave centered and inspired.
An Artistic Feast for One
Santa Fe's art scene shines at the Santa Fe School of Cooking's Artists' Table benefit dinner, supporting local arts. This Valentine's event pairs Susan Contreras' vibrant Mexican-inspired art with chef Michele Roetzer's multi-course meal and wines.
Artist Susan Contreras' colorful work complements chef Michele Roetzer's cuisine at Artists' Table. (Photo credit: Eric Swanson)
Dine royally, support the arts, and take home a signed limited-edition print.
Extend the Art Vibe with ArtFeast
ArtFeast (year 17 in 2014) from February 21-23 showcases Santa Fe's creative lifestyle. Don't miss the Edible Art Tour: gallery hopping with chef-prepared bites. This year adds Fashion Feast with Project Runway star Mondo Guerra's collection and Goler Imported Shoes.
Fun awaits with Mondo Guerra at ArtFeast! (Photo credit: ARTsmart)
Enjoy hors d'oeuvres from Eldorado Hotel and DJ Rose's beats.
Solo in Santa Fe: Pure Joy
This itinerary proves solo time in Santa Fe is enriching and fun. Self-love strengthens bonds, and there's always space for two.
